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Reviews for: The Illegitimate Thread, by Lydia Gray
A study of illegitimacy in the parish of Addingham, Cumberland, 1820-1939, Cumberland and Westmorland Antiquarian and Archaeological Society, Extra Series, Vol 52 (2024)

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Local Population Studies, no. 114, Autumn 2024, pp. 116–118.

Cumberland and Westmorland Antiquarian and Archaeological Society Extra Series 52 (Cumberland and Westmorland Antiquarian and Archaeological Society, Kendal, 2024). xii+204 pp.
Review by Andrew Hinde.

This book constitutes a remarkable multi-source study of the children born to unmarried parents in the Cumberland parish of Addingham during the nineteenth and early twentieth centuries, together with their parents and other members of their families. Although there have been several important studies of illegitimacy in the period, I do not know of any that have discovered and set out the lives of the families concerned in as much detail as Lydia Gray does here. The book begins with a brief discussion of the historiography of illegitimacy in the period. Gray then describes the methods she has used to construct her database. In brief, she established what she calls a ‘Core Group’ of illegitimate children and their mothers and fathers using baptism registers from the Anglican and Methodist churches. This produced 191 children, 134 mothers and 48 fathers. She then used a range of sources to find out as much as possible about the lives of this group. The sources included Ancestry and FindMyPast, as well as censuses and vital registration data. They also included Penrith Petty Session records (for bastardy bonds), school records, Poor Law records and newspapers. These sources identified additional persons (such as mothers and other relatives of the women who bore illegitimate children), which eventually allowed her to expand the Core Group to produce a ‘Biographical Group’ of some 500 individuals whose lives intersected with illegitimacy in the parish. Finally, some personal contact with the descendants of individuals in the Biographical Group filled in ‘gaps’. A valuable feature of the sources Gray uses is that they are not unique to the particular parish she is studying. A similar collection of sources will be available for many parishes in England, so the approach Gray has adopted has wide applicability. The results of the analysis are presented in two parts. The first, and shorter, part examines illegitimacy in a quantitative, demographic manner. Cumberland was, overall, an area of England where illegitimate births were relatively common, but the parish of Addingham had an illegitimacy ratio rather below the county average. What strikes the reader from the statistics presented is how unremarkable the bearing of children outside marriage was. Bridal pregnancy was common; most mothers of illegitimate children had only one such child; the mortality rate of illegitimate children was not unusually high; and many illegitimate children seem to have lived ‘within a domestic set-up akin to an ordinary family’ (p. 39). The second, and longer, part uses the biographies of each relevant individual assembled from the multi-source record linkage to examine the social, occupational, economic and family backgrounds of the mothers who conceived and bore illegitimate children; how the mothers managed their situation after the birth; what happened to the children themselves; and (to a more limited degree) the characteristics and the role of the fathers. It is remarkable how many of the mothers’ and children’s histories can be reconstructed in detail from the extant sources, although it must have taken months of painstaking toil to weave all the data together to produce a coherent set of stories (hence the title of the book: The Illegitimate Thread). Gray divides the qualitative results into themes: for example, cultural attitudes to courtship and marriage, and the roles of the workhouse and the extended family in caring for the illegitimate children, among many others. It is hard to select highlights from the many results of Gray’s work. However, I shall try to list a few which struck me. The first is the pervasiveness of extra-marital sexual intercourse and childbearing within the community. Illegitimacy was normal, and many—probably a majority—of the inhabitants of Addingham were associated with it, because it touched a member of their own family, whether as an illegitimate child himself or herself, the mother or father of an illegitimate child, a carer for such a child, or a relative. Peter Laslett wrote of a ‘bastardy-prone sub-society’, but Gray suggests that in a community like Addingham we could almost invert this and think of a smallish ‘sub-society’ that was not associated with illegitimacy, whereas the bulk of the population encountered it in their daily lives and accepted it as a normal part of human experience. The second is that recourse to the poor laws was relatively unimportant in how the community dealt with non-marital childbearing. This was especially the case under the New Poor Law, in which mothers were solely responsible for bringing up their illegitimate children. Mothers did try to ‘affiliate’ the putative (or known) fathers, with mixed success, but only a small number of the children and their mothers were forced to enter the union workhouse. It may have been that a large proportion of children born in the workhouse were illegitimate; but it was not the case that a large proportion of illegitimate children lived in the workhouse. Third, the censuses of Addingham seem to have been highly accurate in describing the relationships between the illegitimate children and other members of their families. A relatively common scenario was that an illegitimate child was taken in by the family of his mother and brought up under the impression that the person who was actually his mother was his older sister and that the person who was actually his grandmother was his mother. In several such cases the family (or the head of the household) reported the true situation to the census enumerator even when it was concealed from the child in question. These were three highlights for me. Other readers may take away other points from their reading of the life stories of the inhabitants of Addingham that have been so carefully constructed in this book. Finally, this is a work of local population history, and an obvious question to ask is how representative Addingham was of rural communities in England as a whole. My guess is that it was broadly representative of upland populations in the north of England, but not so obviously of parishes in the Midlands and the South. However, this is only my conjecture and it would be interesting to read similar studies of communities in other parts of the country. In this book, Lydia Gray has certainly shown how such studies could be effected. Andrew Hinde

Family and Community Historical Research Society, Newsletter, Autumn 2025, Vol. 27, Issue 3

Review by Sue Day.

This is a remarkable book, both in terms of the quality of the content and of the quality of production. The author, Lydia Gray, is an independent researcher who has for fifteen years had an interest in the parish of Addingham. Her intimate knowledge of the area, its people and its records are apparent throughout the book, which contains an immense amount of detail on which she has based a thorough analysis of all aspects of illegitimacy. Given the quantity of data with which the reader is about to be confronted, an opening section on Abbreviations and Terminology, a comprehensive Introduction, and a chapter on Methodology and Sources provide useful points of entry into what is to come. Thereafter the study is divided into three parts. Part One: The Core Group defines the demography of the parish in general terms. Part Two: The Biographical Group, which takes up the central part of the book, looks respectively at the individual experiences of the mothers who gave birth to illegitimate children, the children themselves and, where known, the fathers of the children. Part Three discusses the biographies of the individuals and families assembled using the data and is supported by a dedicated website. A number of research questions are asked, and answered, in the course of the book, such as how changes in social attitudes towards illegitimacy contributed to behaviour over time and whether levels of illegitimacy in Addingham varied from those in other parts of the country. The author points out where her study has been limited by the availability of source material, such as the publication of the 1921 Census, which came too late for inclusion in her research. Nevertheless, her research incorporates a wide range of primary and secondary sources, many of which are available to any family historian or local history researcher. What impresses is how the data obtained is organised, analysed to extract detailed information, and then presented in a clear and comprehensible format while still retaining a sense of the humanity of the people about whom the author is writing. The inclusion of three maps helpfully locates the parish of Addingham within the area, and shows its relationship to surrounding parishes. Tables and colour-coded graphs of data drawn from the database and interspersed throughout the text helpfully illustrate the points the author wishes to make. Extensive bibliographies of primary and secondary sources together with numbered footnotes make it easy to follow up any point of interest to the reader. The book has a comprehensive index. The study is beautifully presented, and while it is of great interest in itself, it also provides a worthy paradigm for any researcher wishing to undertake a focused study, whether on illegitimacy or any other topic in a local context. Sue Day

Cumbria Local History Federation, Bulletin 95, Summer 2024, p, 34.

Review by Ruth Lawley.

This important new book is the result of 15 years’ work and extensive use of primary sources including parish, Penrith petty session and school records as well as newspaper reports, census and civil registration. Relevant use of stories of illegitimacy from popular 19th-century literature is made. The number of illegitimate births registered in Cumberland in this period was about twice the national average. This research identifies and explores as much as possible the lives of 176 mothers, 236 children and 87 fathers who form the basis of this book. Their experience of illegitimacy is connected through the context of Addingham parish. The author was challenged by the complexities of researching the lives of mainly women and children whose names change. The book is arranged in five sections: the introduction, methodology, the demographics of the core group, the detailed Biographical Group and the Biographies. All the statistical data is confined to one section, with later chapters providing a more descriptive and continuous narrative. Many readers will find the Biographical Group the most interesting and accessible. The local historian can learn much from this work. Premarital sex was common and 40% of Addingham brides were pregnant or mothers when married. Shame and secrecy were not as universal as may be thought. Generally this was a culture tolerant of illegitimacy, or at least pragmatic. However, ‘marriage did matter’ and cohabitation was rare. Almost half of the women studied go on to marry a different partner. Fifty per cent of babies stayed with their mothers and most of the rest were brought up by members of the mother’s family. The role of the workhouse is not as important as may be assumed. Most illegitimate births did not take place in the workhouse, but some went there to give birth and others needed support after birth. For some, the workhouse coordinated outreach support, or the workhouse itself took care of the child. Notably, there is only one instance of a child abandoned from birth in the workhouse. From the title to the detail in the text this is a thoughtful, articulate and intelligent study which has an essential place in Cumbrian and national local history. It shines a light on an area often overlooked in social histories. Not an easy read, but well worth it! Has it ‘come together as a fabric woven from documentary threads?’ Yes, the author thinks so, and I would agree. Detailed biographies are available on the author’s website: addinghamcumbria.co.uk Ruth Lawley

Cumbria Family History Society

Review by Ian White.

I was immediately taken with Lydia’s introductory quotation from Jackie Kay-Darling: “The dead don’t go till you do, loved ones, the dead are still here holding our hands” It was reported in 1864 that Cumberland had twice as many illegitimate births as the national average. Was Cumberland really so different from other counties and how can any difference be explained? In this new book just published, Lydia Gray examines the situation in four villages in the Eden Valley – Gamblesby, Glassonby, Little Salkeld and Hunsonby with Winskill – which together make up the parish of Addingham, east of Penrith. The Registrar-General reported in 1864 that the number of illegitimate births registered in Cumberland was almost twice the national average. Was the population of the county more ‘immoral’ than other counties – or just healthier, so that more conceptions survived to be born, or were more babies registered because of the ‘lamentable absence, amongst both parties to illegitimacy, of that deep sense of shame’ apparently exhibited in proceedings at Penrith’s Petty Sessions? Based upon a broad and deep investigation of a multitude of records, the majority in the public domain, with an emphasis upon the personal stories of the women, children and men. What came before the birth of the illegitimate child, what happened after to the mothers and children? And what can be established about the fathers? The book looks at the many possible scenarios leading up to the birth of a child ‘out of lawful wedlock’ and follows the lives thereafter of about 175 mothers and their children as it weaves together its account of how local unmarried mothers coped in the nineteenth and early twentieth centuries. The fathers are also investigated – it is surprising how much information can be recovered from documents in the public domain. The research took many years and was based upon a very wide range of records. This group of people quite often changed their surname; marriage resulted in a name change for the mother and quite often for her child also, presumably so that they fitted unobtrusively into the new family. This may have been intended to conceal or a simple kindness and acceptance. It was also not an offence – under English common law, the legal name is the one by which you are generally known and ‘it is still perfectly legal for anyone over the age of 16 to start using a new name at any time, as long as they are not doing so for a fraudulent or illegal reason.’ Lydia Gray lives in the Eden Valley. She has been investigating the parish of Addingham for some fifteen years – the village of that name was reputed to have disappeared when the river Eden changed its course. She has previously published articles on the history of local Methodism and on parish links with the Penrith Workhouse. She has a website called Signposts to Addingham at: https://www.addinghamcumbria.co.uk. Many of the individual stories are given there in more detail than is possible in the book. It is not always so comfortable reviewing a book from a publishers download rather than the book in hardback format which can be hand held, however, sitting at my desktop computer, this download has held my attention and interest and I can personally recommend the book in either form, such is the quality of Lydia Gray’s devotion to accuracy and detail. Most of my fellow genealogical researchers will have fallen foul to a degree of illegitimacy in our researches at some time or other. Thank you, Lydia, for this fascinating insight into a topic that is relevant for all family historians. Ian White

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